I (23M) have a close friend who’s gay (same age) and he was recently telling me about some guy and mentioned the word bussy, which made me physically cringe. He said it was homophobic that I found it gross.

I wouldn’t have had that reaction if he was just telling me about the guy he hooked up with and used the word ass, butthole or whatever. Just the word bussy makes me cringe so bad and the fact it comes from “boy pussy” makes it worse.

My friend later on said he didn’t actually mean it when he called me homophobic but I don’t know if he said that just to brush it off as a joke or actually meant it.

EDIT: So I asked my friend and he said he was definitely joking when he called me homophobic and used the word bussy as a euphemism lol. Anyway thanks for all the comments, I definitely learned something new today